Discovery chooses money over a person's right

I am insured on one of their employees life policies as a dependant. Called them up to say I no longer consent to be covered on this person's policy but Justin kept repeating himself and not much help. He eventually gave another number to call and I spoke to Surprise. I am told that only the policy holder can remove me from the policy and not anyone else! So even after I am telling you I do not wish to be on this person's policy, I am requesting you to remove me as I am not comfortable being covered and this person gaining cash benefits from my death you still refuse!!! It is my right to choose whetger or not I want to be covered and by whom. You want to keep deducting money and tell me I have no option but to remain on the policy until the policyholder removes me!!?? The 'policyholder'and I do not speak and ofcourse she would want to benefit from my death but I do not want that! The fact that you are refusing my instruction to be removed is unnerving.